<![CDATA[Metal Gear Forums - Off Topic]]> https://metalgearforums.com/ Mon, 08 Jun 2026 09:07:42 +0000 MyBB <![CDATA[Late night feelings]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Late-night-feelings Sat, 09 May 2026 05:48:41 +0200 NateDog]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Late-night-feelings
I watched When Harry Met Sally last yesterday for the first time, and one of the things that (for some reason) stood out to me was these close friends that each of the main characters had outside of work at the various stages in their lives despite the many time jumps in the movie. I feel like that's something I've struggled with over the years a lot. Maybe it's just me and my own personality and inability to retain friendships. I can be very closed off and don't exactly make it easy for people, heck a coworker just the other night was asking me how long we had been working on the same team (we're split up into 4 groups that all normally only interact with each other in passing unless people are working overtime or end up covering gaps in other teams) and I laughed that she's remarked many times that I used to be such a rude bastard and it took years to break me out of my shell with her once she ended up on mine. 

But I have had people that I've spent time with outside of work that I get along with well and it generally ends up the same way. You leave jobs and it just becomes harder to see each other, you try and the other person doesn't so you stop trying (that's how I ended up years without any friends having cut off everyone from my school years a long while back), they move away, etc. I guess I always wonder when I see people that not only maintain these relationships but also continue to forge new ones how they manage to do it. I find it hard to get time for myself to breathe most weeks. Maybe I just encourage it. I go to the cinema alone, I game mostly by myself (apart from the odd occasion with my brother-in-law), I don't drink alcohol so I avoid work nights out most times they happen. I often see people lamenting the challenge of making friends as you get older and away from the years of school, college and that point in life where you're bouncing from job to job and regularly meeting new people your age. 

Is it just the modern age, or has it always been this way for everyone? Do it early or face getting left behind? Maybe I shouldn't miss it. I'm a loner at heart and have been for a long time, something I remind Leelee often when she sees me in those moments where I just want peace and little more for a while. So maybe I've actively asking for it. But every now and again I find myself craving more, different connections with other human beings.]]>
I watched When Harry Met Sally last yesterday for the first time, and one of the things that (for some reason) stood out to me was these close friends that each of the main characters had outside of work at the various stages in their lives despite the many time jumps in the movie. I feel like that's something I've struggled with over the years a lot. Maybe it's just me and my own personality and inability to retain friendships. I can be very closed off and don't exactly make it easy for people, heck a coworker just the other night was asking me how long we had been working on the same team (we're split up into 4 groups that all normally only interact with each other in passing unless people are working overtime or end up covering gaps in other teams) and I laughed that she's remarked many times that I used to be such a rude bastard and it took years to break me out of my shell with her once she ended up on mine. 

But I have had people that I've spent time with outside of work that I get along with well and it generally ends up the same way. You leave jobs and it just becomes harder to see each other, you try and the other person doesn't so you stop trying (that's how I ended up years without any friends having cut off everyone from my school years a long while back), they move away, etc. I guess I always wonder when I see people that not only maintain these relationships but also continue to forge new ones how they manage to do it. I find it hard to get time for myself to breathe most weeks. Maybe I just encourage it. I go to the cinema alone, I game mostly by myself (apart from the odd occasion with my brother-in-law), I don't drink alcohol so I avoid work nights out most times they happen. I often see people lamenting the challenge of making friends as you get older and away from the years of school, college and that point in life where you're bouncing from job to job and regularly meeting new people your age. 

Is it just the modern age, or has it always been this way for everyone? Do it early or face getting left behind? Maybe I shouldn't miss it. I'm a loner at heart and have been for a long time, something I remind Leelee often when she sees me in those moments where I just want peace and little more for a while. So maybe I've actively asking for it. But every now and again I find myself craving more, different connections with other human beings.]]> <![CDATA[Basketball (last 5 mins of 4th quarter watchers only)]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Basketball-last-5-mins-of-4th-quarter-watchers-only Mon, 04 May 2026 02:04:36 +0200 SK8R LUNG]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Basketball-last-5-mins-of-4th-quarter-watchers-only
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]]> <![CDATA[Where are you from?]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Where-are-you-from Sun, 19 Apr 2026 12:32:18 +0200 DANMATUS]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Where-are-you-from Null post "How old are you?" I thought id start a "Where are you from?" thread! Ill start: I was born, raised and is currently living in Sweden, parents fled the war from Iran in the late 70s.]]> Null post "How old are you?" I thought id start a "Where are you from?" thread! Ill start: I was born, raised and is currently living in Sweden, parents fled the war from Iran in the late 70s.]]> <![CDATA[How old are you?]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-How-old-are-you Fri, 17 Apr 2026 19:30:39 +0200 Null]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-How-old-are-you <![CDATA[Travelling]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Travelling Fri, 17 Apr 2026 15:01:04 +0200 Jassassino]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Travelling
I'm heading to China on 1st May, really looking forward to going back - I spent a month in Chengdu back in 2016, so it will be like a ten year anniversary trip for me (even if I'm not going back to Chengdu).

I've got a little over two weeks booked off for it. Hoping to do a crescent tour of cities starting in Beijing, and even planning on doing a few Kung Fu lessons whilst there (booked one in with the Shaolin Temple as part of a group lmao. Looking forward to seeing if what people say about Shaolin Temple being a state-sponsored McDojo is true).]]>
I'm heading to China on 1st May, really looking forward to going back - I spent a month in Chengdu back in 2016, so it will be like a ten year anniversary trip for me (even if I'm not going back to Chengdu).

I've got a little over two weeks booked off for it. Hoping to do a crescent tour of cities starting in Beijing, and even planning on doing a few Kung Fu lessons whilst there (booked one in with the Shaolin Temple as part of a group lmao. Looking forward to seeing if what people say about Shaolin Temple being a state-sponsored McDojo is true).]]> <![CDATA[Baseball]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Baseball Mon, 06 Apr 2026 15:59:27 +0200 SK8R LUNG]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Baseball [Image: siren.gif]world series rematch happening tonight[Image: siren.gif]


except half of the jays lineup is injured gg]]> [Image: siren.gif]world series rematch happening tonight[Image: siren.gif]


except half of the jays lineup is injured gg]]> <![CDATA[MGF's Official Rant Thread]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-MGF-s-Official-Rant-Thread Wed, 11 Feb 2026 09:07:09 +0100 Jassassino]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-MGF-s-Official-Rant-Thread
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Every week I go into the office once a week, grab a Thameslink to get there. Used to be easy enough, I'd get a seat easy. Over the past 4 or 5 months, there's been exponentially more and more people on my usual train. There's been times in the past few weeks where I would simply have to wait for the next one to be able to get on, and if one was cancelled, I'd be fucked for space on any of them and have to find another way. 

Just let people continue working from home. I actually don't care about all this talk about productivity etc. 

And if there's an uptick on people commuting to the office? Increase the number and size of trains! 

Also, coincidentally, as I was just done typing all the above, an overhead wire for our track broke and we had to get off the train to change to the underground instead. Bruh. 💀

Anyway yeah, what's been on your mind lately? Anything you wanna get off your chest?]]>
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Every week I go into the office once a week, grab a Thameslink to get there. Used to be easy enough, I'd get a seat easy. Over the past 4 or 5 months, there's been exponentially more and more people on my usual train. There's been times in the past few weeks where I would simply have to wait for the next one to be able to get on, and if one was cancelled, I'd be fucked for space on any of them and have to find another way. 

Just let people continue working from home. I actually don't care about all this talk about productivity etc. 

And if there's an uptick on people commuting to the office? Increase the number and size of trains! 

Also, coincidentally, as I was just done typing all the above, an overhead wire for our track broke and we had to get off the train to change to the underground instead. Bruh. 💀

Anyway yeah, what's been on your mind lately? Anything you wanna get off your chest?]]> <![CDATA[F1]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-F1 Mon, 26 Jan 2026 22:46:44 +0100 BigBrother]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-F1 [Image: oq5dy8hx7n671.webp] 
Zoom zoom zoom!

Closed test today. This year marks year 28 for me (first year was back in 1998 - a guy called Michael driving a red Ferrari - easy sell).

Anyone else looking forward to testing/season at large? What do we think?


Also; prized possession picture tax. No CoA...

Spoiler:
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Zoom zoom zoom!

Closed test today. This year marks year 28 for me (first year was back in 1998 - a guy called Michael driving a red Ferrari - easy sell).

Anyone else looking forward to testing/season at large? What do we think?


Also; prized possession picture tax. No CoA...

Spoiler:
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I'm not sure exactly how things work in the UK/USA (pretty sure it isn't this way in the UK), but since Amazon opened their logistics centre here a couple of years ago, they've used their own dedicated vans and drivers for all deliveries, so deliveries should in theory at all times be in the hands of Amazon workers, from the packing centre to the point of delivery. Easier to do on a small island than elsewhere.

Yesterday she collected a delivery. She saw the van outside after she went upstairs and is 99% sure she saw the driver sitting in the van opening packages, looking through them and reclosing them when he saw what was inside. She then said she thinks he saw her at the curtain and drove off pretty quickly.

Now she's wondering whether to report it or not. I said that I noticed on a local Reddit that a few people that managed to order RAM on a great deal a week or two back from Amazon (likely a misprice) received something else, one being a paper notebook. This happened a few years back too in both UK and Ireland when the PS5 was really hard to find, and I saw multiple posts about people receiving something other than the console, including cat food or boxes of cereal.

I said if she feels sure of what she saw then she should do it. She said she didn't want to potentially make someone lose their job (this was the main reason she didn't escalate a previous issue with deliveries being left on the street and lying about knocking on the door, because it was before Christmas) but I said - having previously worked with someone sacked for stealing money from customer accounts and the store via fake trade-ins - that if a person is doing this then they don't value their job much in the first place and don't deserve it. That being said I know Amazon are shitty to work for to put it lightly, but it doesn't excuse it. Everyone else has told her not to report it, especially if she thinks he saw her at the window.

So I suppose I'm curious on opinions.]]>
I'm not sure exactly how things work in the UK/USA (pretty sure it isn't this way in the UK), but since Amazon opened their logistics centre here a couple of years ago, they've used their own dedicated vans and drivers for all deliveries, so deliveries should in theory at all times be in the hands of Amazon workers, from the packing centre to the point of delivery. Easier to do on a small island than elsewhere.

Yesterday she collected a delivery. She saw the van outside after she went upstairs and is 99% sure she saw the driver sitting in the van opening packages, looking through them and reclosing them when he saw what was inside. She then said she thinks he saw her at the curtain and drove off pretty quickly.

Now she's wondering whether to report it or not. I said that I noticed on a local Reddit that a few people that managed to order RAM on a great deal a week or two back from Amazon (likely a misprice) received something else, one being a paper notebook. This happened a few years back too in both UK and Ireland when the PS5 was really hard to find, and I saw multiple posts about people receiving something other than the console, including cat food or boxes of cereal.

I said if she feels sure of what she saw then she should do it. She said she didn't want to potentially make someone lose their job (this was the main reason she didn't escalate a previous issue with deliveries being left on the street and lying about knocking on the door, because it was before Christmas) but I said - having previously worked with someone sacked for stealing money from customer accounts and the store via fake trade-ins - that if a person is doing this then they don't value their job much in the first place and don't deserve it. That being said I know Amazon are shitty to work for to put it lightly, but it doesn't excuse it. Everyone else has told her not to report it, especially if she thinks he saw her at the window.

So I suppose I'm curious on opinions.]]> <![CDATA[What do you want for Christmas?]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-What-do-you-want-for-Christmas Wed, 03 Dec 2025 23:11:02 +0100 Dirty Duck]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-What-do-you-want-for-Christmas Well? You can tell me!
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I know we're all a big old age these days but I thought it doesn't hurt to talk about our gift wishes (regardless of if we've actually asked for them).

I've asked for Kirby Air Riders and the Kirby + Warp Star amiibo to go with it. I'm hoping to play it with my youngest nephew (15) on Christmas day to replicate that feeling from the Christmas of yesteryear of opening a new game as a gift in the morning and then playing it on my Game Boy when we moved to our extended family's house for the remainder of the day. Christmas is also about him having a nice time more than anything else now since his mum died a few years ago so I've been trying to think of things to do with him over the period. Thankfully we're somewhat alike so it's not too selfless an exercise since its stuff I'll enjoy too.

Plus that amiibo is kind of pricey so maybe not the kind of thing I'd buy for myself...making it a perfect xmas list ask!]]> Well? You can tell me!
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I know we're all a big old age these days but I thought it doesn't hurt to talk about our gift wishes (regardless of if we've actually asked for them).

I've asked for Kirby Air Riders and the Kirby + Warp Star amiibo to go with it. I'm hoping to play it with my youngest nephew (15) on Christmas day to replicate that feeling from the Christmas of yesteryear of opening a new game as a gift in the morning and then playing it on my Game Boy when we moved to our extended family's house for the remainder of the day. Christmas is also about him having a nice time more than anything else now since his mum died a few years ago so I've been trying to think of things to do with him over the period. Thankfully we're somewhat alike so it's not too selfless an exercise since its stuff I'll enjoy too.

Plus that amiibo is kind of pricey so maybe not the kind of thing I'd buy for myself...making it a perfect xmas list ask!]]> <![CDATA[Funny and Interesting Pictures & Videos]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Funny-and-Interesting-Pictures-Videos Wed, 22 Oct 2025 08:27:30 +0200 black king]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Funny-and-Interesting-Pictures-Videos
Since we're around Halloween, I'll give you something in the spirit of the season.

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Since we're around Halloween, I'll give you something in the spirit of the season.

]]> <![CDATA[Tattoos]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Tattoos Thu, 16 Oct 2025 22:50:45 +0200 Helikaon]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Tattoos [Image: IMG-2974.jpg]

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Who else has ink?]]> [Image: IMG-2974.jpg]

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Who else has ink?]]> <![CDATA[Books and Reading]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Books-and-Reading Thu, 16 Oct 2025 22:38:22 +0200 Helikaon]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Books-and-Reading

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[Image: IMG-3555.jpg]]]> <![CDATA[Professional Wrestling]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Professional-Wrestling Sat, 13 Sep 2025 04:29:49 +0200 Webbie2689]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-Professional-Wrestling

Who loves pro wrestling?

When I found combat sports I stopped watching pro wrestling for like 16 years because I had that, "fuck that fake shit, I watch the real shit!" attitude. Over the past few years I rediscovered my love for wrestling, and man, when it's good... it's really good.

Currently watching through this "Unreal" docuseries on Netflix, a little behind the scenes look at the build up to the debut of Raw on Netflix and the last WrestleMania. The behind the scenes shit is my favorite these days. Also love listening to podcasts where old timers sit around and talk about shit that happened backstage that fans never had the chance to hear about until now.

Also took my soon to be wife to NXT Battleground a few months ago. We had seats directly behind the ring, so we were right in the main camera the whole night.

I've got some pics from it, but it won't let me upload them because they're too big. Any quick/easy way around that?


Anybody following pro wrestling these days? WWE, AEW, TNA, NJPW, anything?]]>

Who loves pro wrestling?

When I found combat sports I stopped watching pro wrestling for like 16 years because I had that, "fuck that fake shit, I watch the real shit!" attitude. Over the past few years I rediscovered my love for wrestling, and man, when it's good... it's really good.

Currently watching through this "Unreal" docuseries on Netflix, a little behind the scenes look at the build up to the debut of Raw on Netflix and the last WrestleMania. The behind the scenes shit is my favorite these days. Also love listening to podcasts where old timers sit around and talk about shit that happened backstage that fans never had the chance to hear about until now.

Also took my soon to be wife to NXT Battleground a few months ago. We had seats directly behind the ring, so we were right in the main camera the whole night.

I've got some pics from it, but it won't let me upload them because they're too big. Any quick/easy way around that?


Anybody following pro wrestling these days? WWE, AEW, TNA, NJPW, anything?]]> <![CDATA[NFL Chat]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-NFL-Chat Tue, 09 Sep 2025 00:16:03 +0200 black king]]> https://metalgearforums.com/Thread-NFL-Chat

Since Week 1 was yesterday, I figured I'd start up a topic for any NFL fans out there. Anyone besides me a fan?]]>

Since Week 1 was yesterday, I figured I'd start up a topic for any NFL fans out there. Anyone besides me a fan?]]>